When Rob Huberman came out to the Chicago Sun-Times during an interview about taking over as CEO of the Chicago Public Schools, it was not a shock or even news to most in the gay community. [See Yasmin Nair's comprehensive Windy City Times cover story
here.]Huberman’s open secret was not really even a secret, certainly not on the par with previous closeted government officials. Huberman had been involved with gay and AIDS groups for years, including as a police officer, as the Mayor’s Chief of Staff, and while president of the Chicago Transit Authority.
But Huberman would never officially “come out” for the media.
Windy City Times asked him numerous times. He always demurred.
I was never sure why, since everyone who is politically active, and certainly his ongoing boss Mayor Richard M. Daley, knew he was gay. Daley has had gays and lesbians in some of his top spots, so Huberman had nothing to fear from the guy signing his checks. As his jobs have taken him further into the spotlight, the issue became even more relevant.
But I do not believe in outing unless the person is a hypocrite, along the lines of an anti-gay senator tapping his toes for a male undercover officer or a homophobic preacher paying for a male prostitute. Huberman was never a hypocrite, and in fact he has served on the board of the AIDS agency Chicago House and he was supportive of efforts to bring the Gay Games to Chicago.
Like similar closeted appointed and elected officials in Chicago (and there are many), Huberman presented a dilemma for us. When is someone’s sexuality truly “news.” There was a now-former citywide elected official who was a lesbian. She was not out, but certainly she was very pro-gay, and she brought her girlfriend to community events. So we never outed her. Should we have? Was Huberman’s sexuality news when he first took the helm of the CTA, one of the largest transportation agencies in the world? The same when he took on head of the schools? If he ran for alderman or mayor?
When does he step into the public spotlight far enough for it to matter?
Well, it may be that with the schools post, he knew that the right wing was breathing down his neck. They hate the idea of gay role models for children, so unlike when he was at CTA, they were gunning for him when Daley announced him for the Chicago Public Schools post.
But he was able to control it--he came out on his own terms, even if it was not in the gay media, which had honored his privacy for many years. It angered me, because we at Windy City Times had asked him many times--but at least he did finally come out.
For me, someone who has been out all of my adult life, it is hard to understand how the closet still attracts so many. Huberman’s closet was large, that’s for sure, but it was still a closet, one where he never officially came out to the public at large. He was out to family, friends and probably most colleagues and the mayor. Does it matter that the public did not know?
My feeling about the closet is this: While LGBT kids are still being beat up or kicked out of their homes, while LGBT parents still lose custody, while bosses still fire LGBTs, while LGBT soldiers are kicked out of the military, and while so many laws still discriminate against us, being out is our front line of defense. The more we are out, the more of us who come out, the more we pave an easier road for the generations coming out behind us. So Huberman is a role model, and especially now in his new post, it does matter. Being out as a gay man does matter.
So thank you Ron, for taking that step out of your big closet. You still look fabulous, and now everyone will know why.